Status unchanged

Home maker and Career woman ... what’s the difference? Status unchanged... 

You are doing job for yourself ... you come late... you don’t look after the house hold chores... why do I have to look into house chores ( buying vegetables, groceries) why can’t you do it ? Why I have to open the door for you ? What is that making you so late? Why can’t you priorities your work? Why is there so many calls after 8 pm ... no righteous lady takes work calls after 8 pm ... why do you have to check emails at home? Why do you have to go to business travels so much ? Am I your driver that I will pick you up at late hours from airport? You are doing for yourself and you are adding stress in my life ... I am not used to these... don’t say a word ... when I say something say “Yes / Okay” then only our lives will be better ... you are not good at your work ... neither you are good at home chores ... .. do what I say ... learn to keep me happy ... 

Scenario changed to home maker : 

What do you do sitting at home? You should not  buy groceries/ vegetables... you don’t know how to buy it .. I will buy it ... in my presence this will be done ... why do you touch my clothes ..  why did you wash them .. you don’t know how to wash them properly ... why did you touch ... you don’t know how to do it ..  I am the provider.. I am paying the bills ..  I will fix the menu .. I will supervise and finalise  the house help , you don’t know how to supervise them ... when will you learn to keep me happy ? When will you learn to do things properly? Here’s your medicine ... I know when to take it ..., . stop asking questions when will you learn to take care of me? 

When will you learn to understand my moods.. when will you learn to keep me happy? I provide you with everything ... I give you every material things ..  what else do you need? I have accepted you the way you are  Why can’t you shut your mouth and learn to be like other woman ? Oh I am stressed ...take break from work and rest ... you are so dumb ... do you think I am in lower position ? You don’t respect my work ? You think I have no work ... you are adding stress to me... 

When/ what/ how will I learn ?

 Lessons : 

1) However the situation you are at fault

2) You are never good enough 

3) Alt del your heart/ mind/ voice/ desire

Option: learn the lesson / stop complaining